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The Frog King

folktaleGenre: grimm_fairy_talesBrothers Grimm

Summary

The princess makes a vow to the frog and keeps it despite her initial reluctance, demonstrating commitment to one's word even when it costs.

Story

A princess, playing near a well with her golden ball, loses it into the water. Weeping, she is approached by a frog who offers to retrieve it if she will make him a promise: that he shall be her companion, eat from her plate, and sleep in her bed. Desperate to recover her ball, the princess makes the vow. The frog retrieves the ball and claims his reward, but the princess, horrified at his ugliness and otherness, refuses. Her father, learning of her broken promise, commands her to honor her vow. The princess, bound by her oath, allows the frog to follow her. Each evening, she reluctantly permits him to sup with her and to sleep in her chamber. Though disgusted, she remains faithful to her promise—not out of love but out of duty to honor her oath. One night, the frog asks her to lift him to her pillow and kiss him. She does so, though in anguish. At that moment, the frog transforms into a handsome prince. He reveals that a witch had enchanted him, and only the promise of a pure-hearted maiden, honored despite its cost, could break the curse. The prince and princess marry. Her faithfulness to a vow made in desperation, maintained through genuine discomfort and revulsion, proves to be the very thing that freed him. Their marriage is built not on initial attraction but on her demonstrated commitment to keeping her word. Vows—commitments made before God and witnessed by others—are sacred. The princess's virtue lay not in her emotions but in her fidelity to her sworn word, even when every feeling rebelled against it. Through her vows faithfully kept, she achieved genuine love.

Moral

The princess makes a vow to the frog and keeps it despite her initial reluctance, demonstrating commitment to one's word even when it costs.

Reflection

Commitment therapy and values clarification honor how keeping vows, even costly ones, builds integrity and authentic transformation.

Therapeutic Connection

Commitment therapy and values clarification honor how keeping vows, even costly ones, builds integrity and authentic transformation.

Story Details

Primary Virtue

Vows

Source Type

folktale

Genre

grimm_fairy_tales

Source

Brothers Grimm

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